Helping Your Child Adjust To Preschool
A new school year can be hard on your little one, and for that matter – the parent! If you are new to this routine, and your preschooler is struggling with this adjustment, don’t worry – we’ve all been there. There are few things in life that are more difficult than leaving your child crying in the door of a classroom, even though in your heart and mind you know that this is temporary and necessary for all ages! Take a look at these tips to help you and your child transition through this to a fun and healthy school year:
It Begins With YOU!
Believe it or not, if you haven’t prepared YOURSELF for this major change in your daily life, your child can and WILL pick up on this. Even if you are nervous (as you most of us are) make sure that you exude a sense of calm and confidence – and watch what you say to friends and family – especially when your little one is near.
Consistency Is Key
Children need to know what they are doing, where they are going, and what you are expecting of them. Be sure to set up a routine – even for the youngest of the bunch. This will not only ease the chaos in the household but will also boost awareness of the routine that is exhibited in the classroom. Here’s a simple, yet effect morning routine that can easily be adapted to all age group: eat breakfast together, prepare a lunch or discuss the school lunch menu for the day, set a spot for school gear and have each child gather their things, double check for any missing items, and happily leave the house for a day of learning and friendship!
Leave With Confidence
Once again, when you leave your child in the classroom, they can feel your anxiety. Be sure to hug and kiss your child goodbye, assure them that you will return shortly, and walk away without any lengthy goodbye. Don’t sneak out without saying goodbye, this only makes things worse. You don’t want your child to feel abandoned or tricked. You also want them to know what to expect, including a loving goodbye.
One thing to remember is that kids adjust to new environments on different timelines. If you notice that your child is having a harder time than the others – don’t worry, this process can take a few weeks. Let them adjust at their own pace, your gentleness and patience will help this life lesson be a wonderful experience.